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Personal Note: Relationship=Adventure

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Love Your Boyfriend Updates: New Web Pages Added!

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A Personal Note From Crista

Hi,

Ever since my boyfriend Louie and I moved to Thailand back in December 2008, we have spent every waking hour together. That’s over four months of living together, working together, and sleeping together. It has been such an adventure living in a foreign country, but about a month ago we started to experience a “bliss backlash.”

Excessive fighting started to replace our giggles and hugs. Frustration and resentment covered our sparkling hearts with a dark cloud.

We knew that we loved each other so much, but we didn’t know what to do.

Louie suggested that we live in separate places. I completely resisted this idea. I thought that we failed as a couple if we were not able to live together, so I tried to come up with other suggestions. But no other solutions worked.

I believed that once you live together, you STAY living together or else you break up. I had to give up this way of thinking. I needed to give up that relationships are supposed to be a certain way.

So, two weeks ago we moved into separate rooms at a guesthouse on Kata Beach. At first I hated it. I felt like such a loser living right next door to my boyfriend. This “failure” burned at my heart.

But within a week I could see that this was the best choice we could have made. We can emotionally breathe again. We come together because we want to, not because we have to. We are having fun, laughing and joking around. We have so much more patience and love for each other. It has been great.

Even though I thought that living separately was a BIG step backwards, it turns out that this was a major step forward in creating a loving and inspiring relationship together.

Many traditional relationships are built around fear and security. This can lead to boredom and stagnation, preventing true love and adventure from being a part of the relationship.

Louie and I want to create an out-of-the-box relationship. This forces us to look at what we learned from our culture.

We are hitting a lot of bumps along the way, but we are committed to be happy as individuals AND happy as a couple. Many times this means taking actions that are the opposite to what our society taught us.

We are not just in a relationship, we are on an adventure!

Smiles,
Crista

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Love Your Boyfriend Updates

Here are the new articles that were added to Love Your Boyfriend this month:

20 Crazy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Have fun getting to know the fun side of your boyfriend!

Gift Ideas For Your Boyfriend’s Birthday
Put some fun and adventure into his birthday this year.

Birthday Present Ideas For Your Boyfriend
This year instead of getting your boyfriend the traditional present wrapped with a bow, how about creating an experience he will never forget.

More Birthday Gift Ideas!
Experiential presents are great because the memories will last a life time, they are clutter-free and they are perfect for your boyfriend who already has everything.

Relationship Advice Book Collection
Books that will help you understand men.

Graduation Gift Ideas For Your Boyfriend
Some guys are really into technology. Some just want to have fun playing games and drinking beer, while others just want to wander in the woods. All boyfriends are different so it's important to think about his personality when choosing his gift.

About Crista Beck

Crista Beck is the creator of Love Your Boyfriend, a website devoted to helping women understand and express love for their boyfriends.

To learn more about her website go to: www.love-your-boyfriend.com

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The Love Your Boyfriend Newsletter is written by Crista Beck: http://www.Love-Your-Boyfriend.com. If you have any questions or comments, please send them to: crista [at] love-your-boyfriend.com.

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