Vol. 1 Issue 7

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Personal Note From Crista: 4 Powerful Dating Tips for Women

Feature Article: What Kind of Love Do You Have With Your Boyfriend?

Crista Recommends: The Women Men Adore….and Never Want To Leave

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A Personal Note From Crista

Hi,

Since I'm single again, I jumped at the chance to get some free one-on-one coaching with an incredible dating coach, Shadee Ardala. She gave me some amazing tips and I thought I would share them with you!

Tip #1: Know what he needs to be right off the bat

We as women have a great eye for "potential." But this potential is a self created illusion we create to rush into a relationship instead of seeing a man for who he is.

No matter how hard you try, he is not going to change. So save yourself a lot of time and grief. Know what a man needs to be in order for you to date him.

Do you need someone who is optimistic? Honest? Does he need to have an income? Take time to discover your minimum requirements and don’t waste your time on less than that.

Tip #2: Know your deal breakers

It’s important to know the things that you will not tolerate or accept in a partner. Can you accept a smoker? How about a heavy drinker? Is he currently married? Don’t even bother dating a man who has one of your deal breakers. It will just cause you pain in the long run.

Tip #3: Date many guys for a while

Tip #4: Know where you are on the "getting physical" scale

As women it can be difficult for us to date lots of guys because we can easily get emotionally attached. One of the ways this happens is from getting physical too fast. It’s important to determine at what point on the “getting physical” scale you start to get attached.

Can you hold hands and give him a kiss on the cheek without getting attached? Or are you one of those women who can go all the way without attachment? Know your physical intimacy limits and stick with it. This will allow you the experience of dating several men with ease.

Take time to know yourself and know your needs.

All Smiles,
Crista

Feature Article

By Crista Beck

Did you know that scientists actually study love?

Love may not be just one emotion, but several emotions. They suggest that there are six types of love and that people mix them together in different ways.

See which love types you resonate with:

Erotic Love

Erotic love is known as romantic love. It focuses on beauty and physical attractiveness. There is a lot of sexual attraction with this type of love.

Game-Playing Love

Love is to be taken as fun and not to be taken seriously. These types of people flirt a lot and keep their partners in the dark as to their level of commitment. The key word here is fun. When the fun stops, these people are gone.

Friendship Love

This type of love is based on caring, not on passion. Friendship lovers like to share similar interests and activities. Love grows over time. They are not looking for excitement that game-playing love is.

Shopping-List Love

This is the realistic and unromantic love. People that score high on shopping-list love tend to look at their partners background, attitudes, religion, politics and hobbies. People of this orientation want a good fit. They are very logical and pragmatic about their approach to find the perfect partner.

Manic Love

Manic love is anxious, obsessive and possessive. These people get very jealous. If for some reason their partner ignores them, people scoring high in manic love will do strange and stupid things to get their partner’s attention. These people also get sick to their stomach when they think their relationship is in trouble.

Selfless Love

Considered the highest type of love, selfless love is compassionate and loves unconditionally. Selfless lovers want to help their partners through difficult times. Though there are few examples of truly selfless love in this world, many people claim to have selfless love moments.

Within one relationship we can experience all of these loves. How would you describe your love in the relationship with your boyfriend?

Crista Recommends

For many girlfriends, the very thought of their relationship coming undone is overwhelming. Why did the man that pursued her so vigorously during the early stages of dating now seem so distant later in the relationship?

Those fears don't have to come true in your relationship. There is a way to rekindle lost passion and make your boyfriend crave spending time with you.

Every girlfriend that learns the secrets of their boyfriend's heart soon discovers the power to influence their boyfriend on a profoundly deep level.

Imagine what would happen in your relationship if you knew....

• The highest compliment you can give your boyfriend – and no, it's not praising his physical appearance, which only works on women, not men
• Why you should NEVER give your boyfriend advice – unless he begs you to
• How to make your boyfriend willing to listen to you and try practically anything you suggest

Those insights alone can change your relationship forever. Suppose you also discovered...

• The 15 words you can say to your boyfriend when you're lonely and need reassurance -- These words will get you the positive and supportive response you want from him every time.
• How to make your boyfriend feel powerful so that he'll always want to be with you.
• The one thing you can do in a split second to make your boyfriend feel like he's with the woman of his dreams

Yes, these insights are powerful and you can have them right now!

This amazing book, "The Woman Men Adore.... And Never Want To Leave" is the work of best selling author, Bob Grant, L.P.C. who has been teaching these techniques to women for years in his private practice.

If you want to improve your relationship forever...click here.

About Crista Beck

Crista Beck is the creator of Love Your Boyfriend, a website devoted to helping women understand and express love for their boyfriends.

To learn more about her website go to: www.love-your-boyfriend.com

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