Break Up Help For Those Still In Love With Their Ex Boyfriend

by Mary O.
(San Diego, CA)

Still in love with your ex boyfriend? Looking around for break up help? Now that you find yourself without your him, you either have to find help to move on, or help to win him back.

If you feel you should move on, then the kind of break up help you're going to need depends largely on how bad the end of the relationship was. If it was a major drama that really and seriously took it out of you emotionally, then without a doubt you're going to need plenty of time to recover and get over the relationship.

Taking care of yourself is always key after any emotional turmoil, but in this case where you've been tossed around and you still feel that you love your ex, it is even more key. Don't give yourself a hard time for any decisions you made that you now feel in retrospect were wrong decisions. You did the best you could with what you had, so relax and allow yourself to be human.

Make sure that the break up help you need is to look after YOU. It's time to stop looking after your ex boyfriend and what he maybe going through. You have left him behind and though you still have strong feelings for him, he is no longer your responsibility.

If you feel you need to talk to a professional to help you put the whole relationship into perspective, then you should do this as soon as possible. In a situation where you're still feeling vulnerable and emotional, the sooner you regain your composure and any eroded self-esteem the better.

If the kind of break up help you're looking for is help to get your ex boyfriend back, then you need to do some of the things outlined above, but then you also have to make sure you're implementing a strategy to bring you full circle so you can make up with your ex.

So follow what's already been outlined: taking care of yourself first and foremost, talk to a professional if you feel you have to and forget about your ex for a few weeks while you recover self-esteem and direction.

Once you're through the initial re-grouping stage, you then make contact with your ex boyfriend. Ask for a meeting somewhere neutral. When you meet your ex, calmly and without being overly emotional explain that you still have feelings for him. Explain that you've had time to think and you'd like another chance to make your relationship work. Take the time to listen to him and hear his point of view. You don't necessarily have to agree with him, but you need to listen.

You then give him time to think. Wait for him to call you. Truth is, this could go either way. Using this break up help guarantees nothing. Just know this, you have given it your best shot so there is no need to spend endless hours beating yourself up.

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