Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your boyfriend back and return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex boyfriend feel almost compelled to return your call.
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together. So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex boyfriend to return my phone call, text or IM?"
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works…and worse...puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY- "John, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won't go on and on...
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are:
And here's the BIG SECRET! When you combine the two, you have a recipe that get your boyfriend back and WILL work 'magic'. So...Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person." Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible. But more importantly...
Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. Okay? What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
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