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How to Save a Relationship:
Ask Two Important Questions

Learning how to save a relationship from relationship expert, Alison Armstrong.

According to Alison Armstrong, creator of Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women®, there are two important questions to ask that prevent the ending of a relationship.

When we talk about relationship problems we usually discuss our complaints and what we need more of. But these two questions will open up a new way to talk about your relationship. It may be uncomfortable because you may not be used to sharing this way with your boyfriend.

How to Save a Relationship:
Question #1

“Is there anything you need from me that you have given up on getting?”

This is a very deep question, but this is exactly what men and women leave a relationship over. There is something that they need that they are just not getting.

And these are usually not simple needs like, “I need time with the guys to play basketball.” They are usually things like, “I don’t have freedom to be myself” or “I always feel like I have to walk on eggshells.”

A man will eventually give up on getting what he needs. He will stay until he reaches a point in his life when he is no longer willing to go without this need anymore.

After you ask your boyfriend this question, it is very important to put the magical duck tape over your mouth. You probably have no idea what he is going to answer, so it’s best to suspend any notion that you know what he is going to say.

Listen to him and consider what he has to say as valid. If you don’t need what he needs and you think his need is stupid, then you will make it virtually impossible to use the information he provides to save the relationship.

How to Save a Relationship:
Question #2

“Is there anything that I am doing or anyway that I am being that is losing your respect an affinity?”

This one is going to be very hard to hear the answer to. But it’s hard to keep a relationship going so it’s best to just face it and ask it. If you don’t ask these two questions the relationship can just disintegrate.

It tends to be that a man will leave for something he needs that he is just not getting. A woman will typically leave because she does not respect him or like him anymore. It tends to go these two ways for men and women, but it’s useful to ask both of these questions just in case.

Getting back into the tree

“Falling out of a tree” is the point where someone is just DONE with the relationship. They put up with it. They put up with it. They put up with it. And then they can’t put up with it anymore. They have fallen out of the tree.

Usually at this point it is too late to save the relationship, but these two questions act as a potential opening. The answers to these questions are the beginning to getting back into the tree and getting back together.

These answers open up the possibility of your boyfriend to be willing to give the relationship a go. When he sees a commitment from you to provide what it is that he has been going without, he may want to save the relationship too.

Of course you can ask these questions before a relationship ends and it is recommended. It’s important to nip these things in the bud before your boyfriend falls out of the tree. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

Ask these questions once a year or once a month and you will move the relationship forward considerably.

Ask each other these questions and pay really close attention to the answers. If you are willing to honor what your boyfriend is saying, then you will save the relationship and even make it better. It can be better than it ever was.

Alison Armstrong is the creator of www.understandmen.com and the Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women® workshop.

This workshop can give you a new beginning for your relationship. You will learn a whole new way to think about and interact with your boyfriend. You will learn how to talk to and listen to your boyfriend and all men with immediate, amazing results.

Renew your passion, revitalize your partnership, re-discover your boyfriend.

If you want to transform your relationship forever... click here and register now!

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