Is Saving A Relationship With My Boyfriend Worth It?

by Mary B.
(New York, NY)

Every relationship goes through struggles but after you have been fighting for a long time to keep it alive you may ask if saving a relationship like this is really worth it. You may have gone to counseling and sought ways to bring back the love. You will have done this work only to find that you would start having intimacy problems again. You may have experienced struggles. You ask around for dating tips or advice and have been given some good suggestions only to find that the troubles are still there.

If the struggles continue, then there are some things you should think about to see if saving a relationship like the one you are in is worth the challenge. If you are thinking about breaking up, you need to look at these things honestly and maybe get some serious relationship advice. Saving a relationship is an important thing to try and accomplish and will take a lot of work. It can also be frustrating work if the relationship is not really there.

Write a list of the people you most enjoy spending time with. Is your boyfriend on that list? Do you really enjoy spending time together? When was the last time you went out and just had fun? Is it possible for the two of you to do that? Are you content just being with him? A good relationship between two people is going to be one where two people can enjoy being together or can feel content just having the person there.

Another very important thing to consider when you are deciding if this relationship is worth saving is do they make you feel like you are understood. Do you listen to your spouse? Do you feel like you are being listened to and that they understand you? Spend some time and try to see if they do.

A relationship is supposed to be a place where you can go when you need comforted. Is the relationship one that makes you feel comfort when you have gone through something bad? Is the relationship something that you constantly need to be comforted about? If you are looking elsewhere for comfort, there may be a problem.

If there are questions about faithfulness or infidelity, they need to be addressed. Are you able to trust him? Is he able to trust you? If you have a problem answering either one of those questions affirmatively, then you may either need some serious couple's therapy.

In saving a relationship, there are many other things to consider and a decision like this should not be taken lightly. Ask hard questions and search hard for answers and then you may be able to find if saving a relationship like the one you are in is worth it.

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