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Questions to Ask a Boyfriend:
Ask These Important Questions to See if He's a Keeper

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It's important to know the right questions to ask a boyfriend. Whether you are seeking a serious long-term relationship or you are on the verge of committing, it's important to know if he's really for you.

The first step in this endeavor is to know what you are looking for. You need to know what you want in a long-term relationship.

There are certain questions you need to ask yourself first.

Do you want to get married? Do you want children? If so, what religion do you want to raise the kids? What values do you want your future partner to have?

Having clarity is important. You will save yourself a lot of time. Think of dating as a sorting process. Knowing what you want as well as asking the right questions will help you get what you want sooner.

Get clear on what YOU want.

When I was single and dating, I knew I wanted a long-term, committed relationship with someone who did not want kids. Right away when I was considering dating someone I would ask, "Do you want kids?" If they said yes, I would tell them that I did not want kids and that we should not date.

I really didn't want to waste time so that is why I was so direct. The men I was considering dating were never offended by my directness. They always wished me luck. This day an age, it's OK to be straight forward.

There were other things that were important to me like level of intelligence, sense of adventure, open-mindedness and passion for growth. I kept my eye out for these characteristics as I met men. Knowing what I wanted helped me to find what I wanted.

The following questions to ask a boyfriend are for you to answer first. Then ask him. Definitely don't burden him with all of these questions all on one date. You'll scare the poor guy to death. Definitely find the top two that are most important to you and let the sorting process begin!

Questions to ask a boyfriend

  • Have you ever been married? Do you want to marry again?
  • What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?
  • What happened with your last relationship?
  • How important is it to you that your partner fulfill traditional gender roles?
  • What are your general feelings about money and personal wealth?
  • Do you want a relationship just like your parents have?
  • What are your spiritual values?
  • What are your political beliefs?
  • What are your attitudes toward sex and romance?
  • Do you want to have kids?
  • Where do you want to live?

Remember: It's important to know your own answers to these questions before you start asking him.


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